Sam -
Welcome to divorcebusting.com...officially. You are in good hands with Cadet, he is one of our BEST 'vets'.

When you say 180, what exactly are you DOING? (to get your BEST results using DB techniques, always talk about what you or she is

1) doing
2) saying (exact verbal)
3) anything related to analyzing


Hang in there....REGARDLESS...we are here to help you brainstorm solutions and to support you.

dbmod