Thanks again Starsky and I think your correct on both parts...I didnt know her as well as I thought I did, although the moral and church beliefs I actually did know, but the second part is true as well, I really don't know whats going on in her head right now. I like to think she hasn't thrown away every belief she's had for most of her life, but at least temporarily maybe she has.
She did show up at church this morning with S11, he's been pretty adamant about going and has been putting heat on her to go.....its interesting I read once that some kids in a divorce/seperation situation sometimes end up acting out and some become more moralistic and he's definitely become more moralistic. Anyway, she was clearly not comfortable when she arrived, but by the time it was over she stood around forever talking to people and was having a great time. So I was incredibly happy to see that.
I had to finish the work on her car this afternoon after church and my son went with me to a friends shop where i was working on it and he said that he couldnt wait until Christmastime and I asked him why he was already worried about Christmas b/c I was shocked he was already worried about it and he said b/c thats when me and W's trial seperation would be over. I really didnt konw what to say to him at that point so I just let it go but I hate to think that he thinks all that has to be done is we live seperately until Christmas and then we'll be back together.
All in all the weekend has been interesting to say the least but I think its been pretty good.
