Just read on another thread that you hope I elaborate on the notion of *one false move* driving him away.
As AJ says, there is no list of things per se. It is the idea of when someone begins to feel safe we can destabilize them fairly easily. As 25mlc says, keep the road home
me 45 H 46 T 5 M 2.5 BD Sept 6 2011 OW Sept 8 2011 Threw him out Sept 8 2011