* continuation from last post... Challenging b ecause I don't want to do too much and appear as if I'm pursuinger her, nor do I want to feed her "cake". I guess that will show itself in the way that I actually do or don't things. Also, not to be resentful and sarcastic. To be at peace with what is actually happening and focus on myself as a priority. I have often preached for others to utilize the Serenity Prayer, yet didn't realize that mindset needs to be my bestfriend.