I know it Starsky and im trying hard to keep from doing it, but when you know someone so well its easy at times to assume you know what they're thinking. . . .
I guess I just don't understand the change...church has always been incredibly important to her and when we first split she actually had her dad tell me that she was still planning to go each week. Since we split she's been there 2 times in about 10 weeks now and she used to be there 3 times per week. I think thats why I had a miserable night of sleep b/c i've thought all along if she gave that up our chances would be greatly diminished.
Maybe it will help that i put that down and i'll keep working and trying to move forward.
I started to answer this first part for you, but then I see that your second part answers it for yourself. You do NOT know her as well as you think you do in her current frame of mind. Sometimes it's that we didn't know them as well as we think we did (rather, we knew an IMAGE of them that we wished they were), and often it's just that they're all hopped up on their waywardness and they have temporarily changed. Sometimes it's a combination of the two.
