there was a very important point that was made that got skimmed over....
it was pointed out to you
(I don't know how to copy and paste and give credit...sorry)
but
do you support your wife or do you support your friend and the affair
I know what my answer would be
hey buddy...I get that your married s*cks balls but the fact that you are having an affair (beings as you are still married) with a co-worker who is still married (even though you both are separated) and this person would be your partner at this couples dealio....I have to say...it bothers both myself and my wife and I have to ask you this year, to not be a part of it. Our marriage went through a rough time too and this situation just brings up too many rough emotions while we are still recovering
