If you were ML regularly with him, would that be enough affection? Just curious.
My H was very affectionate but some of it became habit and I really miss it now although I felt often before it was too much. He always had his hands on me public or otherwise. It's been a drastic change and I miss it so much. The grass is always greener on the other side isn't it?
My H is out at a bar with a guy friend and posting his whereabouts on FaceBook. It's hard to not try to mind read. Is he posting to let me know he's not out with girls? Is he posting because he is drunk and has nothing to do? Is he posting because he wants to let girls know where he is? Lol! I must learn to let sleeping dogs lie. I'm getting more practiced at it.
But he is flirting with me texting at the same time, so I think that's good.
I feel a positive slow shift in your sitch. I really like you are identifying your own needs as you look to a new R with him.
I was thinking about the dancing lessons. I really think you should dress in such a way that your H knows about special things you are wearing that nobody else knows. Idk. Just an idea.
Me54/H47 '08 H is "done" March '12 H moved out Brink of D, December '12 2014 totally reconciled! ...... "I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal." Jim Conway