Wendy, pending on my mood, I would have found it VERY hard not to say, "Well you vowed to be with me till death too.... but clearly the not riding in the car with me thing is waaay more important!"
LOL MLCers!
Also, I was catching up on reading your thread, I've found Dream Water is a fabulous way to get sleep! You can buy it in Wal-Mart, it's in the same medicine isle as all the other sleep aids (well here in PA anyway!).