Yes, it can be so odd that they're adamant about keeping some vows, like not riding in the car with you, when others, like forsaking all others and til death do us part seem to be put by the wayside.

I wish I could just see inside my H's head for just a minute or two to see how his mind works right now. It makes no sense to me.

I like your plan to let him deal with the dogs on his own. You offered to help and he turned it down, so now he can see what you have to deal with.

M36 XH34
M-5 T7
4/11 H confused
5/11 ILYB
6/11 OW discovered
7/11 I move out, OW over
5/12-OW2,done->new EA, but H wont file
9/12 H "best bf ever" to EA/OW3
3/13 H/OW break up
H files 4/13
D 6/18/13