I was wondering if you had any new feedback or revelations.
It's not obvious to me that switching to a new wife is any guarantee of solving the sex problem, not to mention all the other emotional and financial costs, especially when the marriage is otherwise good.
A FWB arrangement can help in this situation. And at the same time it can also make one lazy about trying to find a better solution.
I've found a lot of the advice about "getting tough" with your spouse about sex to be useless. It's just not very much fun to have sex with someone who really doesn't want to be there and just wants it to be over with. And it's particularly uninspiring to think that's the only kind of sex you might have for the rest of your life.
