So one thing sticks out in my mind that the MC said and I am wondering if it's something I should bring up with W or wait till the next session to talk about.

MC said "I want you two to take a break from worrying about sex and intimacy and focus on building on the foundation of our friendship" that she sees as one of our biggest assets. Then she tells us that doesn't mean take a break from affection. I know I crave that affection from W but what I don't know is whether we should talk about it because I don't want to be the first to start being affectionate again if she is not ready but I also do not want to NOT initiate small forms of affection if W is waiting for me to make the move.

Things went really well last night before bed... I still feel like she is holding back for some reason and thats what makes me want to have the "affection" conversation as well. Hmmm....


Me - 30
W - 28
M 4
t 6
ILYBINILWY #1 Jan - 2011
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