As it turns out, it's based on the same thing by Steve Harvety. Think like a man, act like a lady.
Guess what? I do this!Reading his book really boosted my self confidence along with all the support and frienship at work from ladies that have had been married 1- 2 time before.
Well guess the "inner bitch" in me feels I must "tooteth" my own horn.
I see the difference in acting with self confidence and commanding respect rather then throwing out demands and being insulting. A woman can command respect all the while still be kind and caring, not being a door mat.
I've been showing him I can hold my own without him for a long time now, especially a month ago when he tried to interfere with things. When I showed him that, he backed off and is giving me the silent treatment for a month now.
That's why I think this is so sick and twisted. It feels like he gets off on trying to control me, even though I fight back, and yet it's ok for her to control him... I mean being nasty controlling.
