I don't know, maybe the beginning? I think full detachment is when we don't care anymore? Hmmm maybe it's not about not caring about them, but that we have created so much of a new life that we could care less about their opinions of or reactions to our new life/ us ???
That actually is how I feel though. I totally get what you mean about seeing them and being surprised by our reaction. And then a second opportunity presents it's self and you think "naaah, I'd rather be doing_______ ". The same olds song and dance gets old.
Like my grandma says, baby, ya got to get sick and tired of being sick and tired
Me-31 H-24 D3,D2 M 4 yrs WAW(me) 12/2011 role reversal 03/2012 (H)PA 3-6/2012 (H)D filed 6/2012 D deemed "inactive", closed 8/2012 I've moved on 9/2012