Thanks Daddy long shanks for that input. I didn't see your post before but found it tonight as I was coming to post for more input at to WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON???
So girls just got home from camping with Dad for 2 days. I was just told of something else that OW did that was just AWFUL.
Apparently he's now letting her drive his truck....took a year for him to do this. But he let her drive his truck to go grocery shopping. When she got home she found that the cheese she bought was moldy. She threw a complete fit because the cheese was from the store he works at. She said horrible things about the store because of this. She demanded that XH take the cheese back and exchange it for cheese that was not moldy and bring it back to her!
WTH is up with that???? She purchases cheese, it's moldy. Yet she throws a fit and demands XH takes it back himself, after she demeans his work place because of it?
And XH flipping did it!
I don't get this at all. He literally licks the dirt off her boots, yet if I do anything out of line, he spews at me like no other! I stand up to him when he acts like a jerk and pushes boundaries and Im verbally and mentally abused. She insults his cooking, insults his place of work that pays for all her things, and he's running around with his tail between his legs saying "yes dear".
Is it possible that he's taking his frustrations out on me that are due to her? Is this some sort of sick and twisted S&M sex thing?
I just don't get it. I do NOT understand how he makes me out to be such a horrific person, yet is literally being treated like dirt infront of his very own children by this woman, and he takes it! If I asked ANYTHING of him the last few months he was here, I was punished for it. Yet she can scream about moldy cheese and not enough mushrooms on her sandwhich and it's ok?
SEriously....Karma is a bitch. Why should I even care? He won't even talk to me now because we had a fight over a stolen ipod/touch. Yet she can kick him in the teeth like this over and over again?
Can someone explain to me just how a woman manipulates a man like that? I know he made his choices but he acts so flipping brainwashed by this woman. What on EARTH do these OP do or say to them to make them put up with this crap?
