It's a good idea to get a different lawyer if you're not comfortable with this one. Lots of interpretation on the part of lawyers. They are not all the same.
Have you asked your friends their recommendations or thoughts on lawyers? It can be helpful.
Something to keep in mind: these battles are a marathon and not over quickly enough. A lot of damage can be done to the kids in these fights. Prep for a long drawn out battle and keep your eyes on the kids. It's easy to lose sight of them in the heat of a custody battle. Always, always, always do what's right for them first and foremost and it'll work out well.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."