Stuck in Holding Pattern 2

[ben11]

Well, it's been about 2 months since I last wrote. Things are going really well right now. I've had a great summer and am a bit sad its drawing to a close. I still have a few more things to look forward to though, like my big bike ride/race in early September and my trip to Europe in late Sept.

As for stuff with W, well, its a STBXW situation, and I'm completely at peace with it. We've talked a couple times in the last 4 months but merely to sort out our personal and shared belongings. I intend to file for D at the earliest date and she's aware of that.

I recently met an awesome girl through online dating and things are going great so far. She knows my situation (not the nitty gritty details, but the overall story) and it's not a problem. I feel completely alive again and it's a great place to be.

For anyone that is reading this I hope you find peace in your situations no matter what part of the journey you're in. Take care!