Glad things are working out for the better TM. Sorry about the situation though.
You are right to be protective of the daughter. I caution you to be gentle with ex right now though. You didn't ask to be treated this way, but anybody going through all that has a lot of pressure and things to think about even if they can't bring themselves to be accountable. Who would want to anyway, since they are under so much pressure.
I think you are spot on if that helps. Staying focused on daughter and protecting her while your ex goes through all of this is important. She is finding out that what she thought, isn't. The reasons she did these things are still churning and you are wise to keep a safe distance.
I'm impressed with the wisdom and action, TM. Keep it up. Very good role model
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
