I think it's fantastic that you were so calm as well. In fact I think you have been amazing in the past week of all of this!
I am so happy t hear about your trip.. What a lovely experience
I have to agree with NG that the rolling of the eyes in front of s is not cool from H. Of course he should know this but unfortunately our spouses at this time are not acting the way that people with consideration for others normally act. ( I had a situation today where I was carrying a bunch of bags and trying to open the car door and H just sat there..I said dude help a lady out!) anywY, I feel they are so defensive about their positions that they even stop doing the things that are just common curtesy/respectful because they are acting out.
Good that he apologised sincerely, and good for you to wait.
You are amazing zig...I do hope you know that by now. How dedicated, loving and giving you are. I hope you live that every day no matter what because that is who YOU are.
Lets go to the blanket?
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home