I don't know. There is a part of me that wants to tell you that opening a FB account might be a good 180 for you, and for your W to see from you. Being so uptight about it (which again I don't blame you for) may have been perceived by her as very conservative and somewhat controlling behavior.
I totally agree with your feelings of her perceiving me being against FB as controlling behavior! It would be a great 180, and it doesn't really bother me near as much as it used to. But I am not sure I am ready for the leap yet...LoL
Boy would that light a fire in her brain if she saw me open a FB page, after she knows how strongly I felt against it
