I love that you were calm enough to suggest that the conversation with S happen when S was calm.
I am glad H apologized but...what really really bothered me when I read your posts was that he rolled his eyes in front of your S. I think he needs to apologize to S and explain how that is not the way to treat anyone, especially one's W and mother.
That was so not okay..
Me(f): 51 W: 41 DP:8 M:3 T:10 "W not happy" 7/11 D final: 8/13