Honestly I don't know what has happened to her. I just don't understand where this has come from. Certainly this is not the woman I fell in love with or married. The person that I knew, the kind, loving, honest, and spiritual person that I fell in love with, would never do anything like this. In fact this is exactly the kind of behavior that she claims I engaged in and broke up our marriage.
Your business partner over 20 years whom you went to college with sells out the company and steals all your profits with the transaction.
Do you really care what "happened" to him?
No, in that case I would not care what happened to him. However, at the risk of being blunt, a marriage is not the same thing as a business partnership and a spouse is not the same thing as a business partner. And while I while have no interest in getting back together with my wife after all of this I still care for her and want her to be able to find happiness in her life.
That is naturally a compassionate feeling towards someone you loved dearly.
There is a place and time for that but not when you are beginning to sort out most important things in your life which the divorce brings along.
Protect your interests. Your future will NOT benefit from today's mistakes and missed opportunities.
Let me just say this: I could have done a few things differently and would perhaps had more cash in my pocket and completely ruined someone else's future. Or I could have spent both of our money and ended with nothing.
I chose to leave with dignity and honour BUT not letting anyone touch what was truthfully mine.
Today I am happily married and live a world away from my ex and we have a cordial and respectful relationship when I decide that it is accepted.
Choices you make today will be paramount for your future's foundation.
