It's crazy how many times a day h pops into my head. I don't obsess, it just kinda happens. I wonder if our was think of us from time to time.
A thought recently occurred to me...after all the detaching, gal and moving on is done, after all the tears, anger and releasing happens, after we really drop all hope, after the once shiny memories have rusted...
Are we willing to really open our hearts to them and trust again? I can only imagine the journey of finally really detaching. Are you even a match to your old spouse? After everything is said and done, I can only imagine how hard that decision would be.
I mean, by then we are FREE. New, improved and happy. Do we open ourselves up to that again? I can see it with someone new, but with them?
Me-31 H-24 D3,D2 M 4 yrs WAW(me) 12/2011 role reversal 03/2012 (H)PA 3-6/2012 (H)D filed 6/2012 D deemed "inactive", closed 8/2012 I've moved on 9/2012