AJ wrote this on Nero's thread. It really struck a chord with me.
But it's entirely possible to move on and not blame anyone other than those that made choices to hurt you. Regardless of how they justify it in their head, they made choices and those choices hurt you.
I want to add that the above is very true. AND I recognize that I also made choices to hurt my marriage. I have tried to change and be a better person. Only time will tell if I actually become one. The important part is that I am trying to be a better person.
Hope everyone has a nice day. My task today is to get every dead leaf and live weed out of my big front yard for the open house Sunday.
Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32 D final 9/12 Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!