Suppo: Its good to see you've been reading, and I think its awesome that your in a good place right now with all of this. I keep saying I hope to get there as well and sometimes I think that im closer than I like to saying Im ok either way simply b/c to me it feels like saying I don't care either way and I certainly care.
Life's been good to me this week. My son was baptized on Wednesday...he called my wife and we waited for her to arrive beforehand so she was not only there, but lots of other people and they all talked to her. I saw lots of emotion from her that gave me a renewed sense that she's struggling with this as well. No real meaning to that, other than its kind of a little boost of inspiration to keep running the marathon.
As far as the facebook, twitter thing goes, just my 2 cents....it is a good window into your life for her to see you GAL like Denver said, but dang he's right when he also says its a 2 way windown. Luckily for me my W has never been big on posting, she's more of a lurker there so I havent had to see or read anything I didnt wanna know. I agree with you though that with your kids you really don't need anything else. Especially if they're happy with you then she'll know about every step you take, and also the kids being cheerful in general will show her an awful lot about what your up to. If your kids are smiling when you show up, excited to see you etc....then it tells her an awful lot about things.
