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She made mention that she wanted to go on a week long retreat to get herself grounded again. I might not like it because of my own neediness but I am over that and I support her decision as I think it will help her bring clarity to the sitch.


Has she ever needed to go away without you in the past? She wants to get more grounded in......what?


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!