I understand that everything that you want to change, you have to do if for yourself.... can you give some insight why you guys didnt work out? Yes, I know that DBing doesnt work for everyone - Im just curious.
There were probably two reasons we didn't work out...First, She had already met someone and she is the type of person that can't be alone (they ended up married about a year after we divorced...he is her 5th husband). Second, she put up with a lot in our marriage and was done.
I ran into her two days ago and we talked for a bit. She is happy with her life and I am glad for her. I am very happy with who I have become and she see's that too.
