I think thats a great definition BD, obviously I personally had alot of issues that im working out each and every day and one of the biggest was not really knowing what made her happy. I constantly 'did' things wether it was notes, calls, flowers etc. But I missed out on her LL...if I were to guess i'd say it was acts of service and undivided attention....thats what i've gathered from things she told her dad after we seperated.
But even though I think those are what she needs, I still have to ASK her what makes her happiest when the time comes. I dont think I realized until all of this happened that i've never done that.
