I am not sure if she notices right now or even cares about what I am up to. Only outlet she has to know what I am up to in life is what the kids tell her. I don't have a Facebook or Twitter account, and never have. So, she wouldn't be able to see anything about my GALing on there.
Facebook was always a HOT button for me, because she used to spend hours on it, along with having friends on there that were previous you know what's! She eventually took them all off of there at a point back in the past, because she knew that it upset me. My sister has a Facebook account & is Facebook friends with her, and stated that she posts soem crazy stuff & started adding a bunch of guys back to her account. But you know what??? I don't really give a RATS A$$!! If that is what she wants, then go for it it!
Denver,
I saw on another thread that you recommended to another guy to post on Facebook & Twitter to let his W know about him GALing. I am not sure if you recommend the same thing for me, but I don't really want an account! Just not that interested in keeping up with people I haven't talked to in 20 years, or keeping up with who is taking a crap at what time of the day. Plus I have the kids, who as we all know are very honest & most likely tell her whatever it is that I go and do in life. I have no secrets!
Hey Suppo! Just caught up on your sitch... Thanks for commenting on mine by the way... And I take it i'm the "Other guy" you're chatting about with the FB/Twitter thing!
IMHO, I'd suggest at least a Twitter feed... I didn't think I'd care much about it, but after I started tweeting a bit, following some of my favorite celebs/athletes/commedians etc. I found that it was a great time-drain when i'm bored, and a great way to get out messages 140 characters at a time. You don't HAVE to follow anyone, and you don't HAVE to advertise the fact that you have an account... But it could be a good release for you, and a good window for people looking to catch up on your life... FB is much more revealing, so if you're gonna start, I'd go with Twitter. Again, Just my opinion.
Other than that, I'd have to agree with the advice you're getting on stalling the D procedures... If for no other reason than it's YOUR desire... You're under no obligation to speed along the process... I'd also look into some legal council for yourself, so at least you'll have peace of mind that you're making the right decisions and protecting yourself...
