KG, I still have that same dynamic happening. It can be crazymaking, I find lots of positive self-talk helps.

I also keep reminding myself that it's more about him than it is about me.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss