If She Won't Stop the Affair?

[wont_stop]

My lawyer will send a letter to her lawyer requesting that she no longer allow contact between the OM and my children. I personally asked her to not allow it again as well.

I just don't like the way she and the OM are handling it. I've read some texts from him, and I get the impression that he thinks he is replacing me as the father, which is really screwed up. It turns out his father left his family early in his life, but his step-father turned out to be a good father figure. I think this guy has a screwed up view that he is saving our children from a terrible father, like his own. My kids love me and I've been the one doing most of the work in raising the kids, working on their homework, taking them out, taking care of them when she disappears.

She claims she won't let him try and replace me as the father, and we are going for joint custody, so I will have 50% time with the kids. But I want to protect my kids from that OM if he has issues.