I still have no clue what's happening. No affairs, no insurmountable problems (to my mind anyway). It's all a bit mindblowing!


mab, I so understand this feeling because it mirrors my own experience.

When some people get to done,they are really done (at least for now). They don't have the desire to work on a R and I tend to think it's because they know they would have to figure out some of their stuff.

Then there are those fixer, co-d people like us who will hang on until the last dog is dead.

We can't make them want to be in a R with us. Apply for the job, live your life for you.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss