After 18 months - H is finally filing.

[needgrace]

I thought it was weird that when this crisis hit he was open, friendly and sharing with me and then went MIA 24 hrs. later.

Hi KG,

I have not posted to you before but have been following your posts recently. I just wanted to say that I noticed a similar dynamic in my sitch.. we would have a really good interaction, she would share more personal stuff about herself or her family.. and then, she would either disappear or take the next step with the D.

i wondered if the positive interactions made her feel uncertain or uncomfortable and she did not like that feeling so she quickly moved in the other direction..

but i do know the pattern now so it is not as much of a surprise.

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