Yes, control is an issue. I think you probably hit the nail on the head. Even though I know that's an issue, I don't think I saw some of his actions as trying to gain control. Which makes sense since when all of this started, he told me he would give me money if I needed it, buy me a house, etc. I will try to keep that in mind more.
Today we are off to the orthopedic to see what is wrong with my D16's knees. H is off to his BBQ competition, so we will have a little breathing room for about 36 hours.
M44 H57 D17 (special needs) M 18 yrs Bomb 7/2/12 Still living together