Another thing - we were talking more about the passion we are both feeling. He wonders if "hooking up" would be a test of how things could be or just a romp.
I told him I couldn't go there if he was still with OW. It's just not 'him' - the man I love would NEVER go for that. He's not a cheater! So as much as I would want to see if that could start to chip away at his wall, I could never be part of that type of behavior - married or not.
I already feel like he's getting his cake & eating it too. (Relationship by day with OW and by night with me - mostly through the phone, but still!)
