How things are improving Part Deux

[mac-ct]

And just before you guys hit the off switch and write Mac off - PLEASE read......

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2259134&page=1

And see how things worked out with self motivation, prayer, help from above and from the best of friends here!

[mac-ct]

Now I wonder who said this

The best advice I have gotten so far - Don't contact her for anything...Let her come to you...No texting, emailing, calling etc...She knows you love her...She knows you are there...She knows she can come back - You were told those things...She knows all this and it is time for you to detach a little more...Pull back and do your own thing...She will hear how you are through the grapevine...She will see you aren't contacting her and will then become curious as to why...

I know it is hard...It takes every ounce of self control that I have not to contact my H...Each morning I wake up and want to text him and see how he is...Where he is...What he is doing etc...But I can't (well I could but I won't)...He needs to know I don't need him...I want him however I no longer need him..I don't contact him for anything at all now...He went 7 days and then contacted me...I saw him on Saturday and haven't heard from him since...We have 2 kids and he doesn't even check on them right now...That is almost to painful to type...

Rant and rave all you want...Just not to her...Hell I will give you my email address and you can scream at me...Just drop the rope a little more with her...Let her flail around in her "happy life" and see what a wonderful treasure she is leaving behind...You, me, all of us deserve better...None of us deserve to be second best...We deserve to be first and foremost.

My wish for you today...

"May the sun bring you new energies by day
May the moon softly restore you by night
May the rain wash away any worries you may have
And the breeze blow new strength into your being…..
And then all the days of your life may you walk gently
Through the world and know its beauty"
~Author Unknown

[zig]

mac -

i'm trying one more time, okay.

i do believe the others are waiting for you to see the light in your own darkness.

we are trying not to give up, because it takes each of us our own time to come to this, to get it, to wake up.

there have been loads of times when others have stood by me on my thread - waiting for me to get it, so i am giving it forward here

YOU ARE GRASPING

for straws, for anything whatsoever.


i read that page you posted the link to.

wake up , dear friend - it worked LAST TIME - but did it really work? because look where you are right now?

if you keep going back to that to hold you through this round, you are fooling yourself and not doing what it takes.

THIS ROUND is different - everything is different. the only difference is that you are NOT detaching and beginning to work on yourself.

see your own pattern here - you are repeating all the mistakes you made last time AGAIN - with w, with "friend" with yourself


you know what you have to change you perspective about now?

you have to change the idea that what you did last time worked so if you do it again then it will work now.

It didn't work last time, and it's not working now.

so let's get down to what's really important here, ok?

YOU - and i am still waiting for your real commitment.

i've literally been waiting for 6 hours now, plus all of yesterday.

your own soul has been waiting for years

now go read the rest of my thread and please dear friend wake up

zig

[mac-ct]

House moving time -

Oops - dropped the rope, misconceptions and a whole load of bad Kama ………

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2274470&#Post2274470

It's actually quite nice off the roller coaster

Mac