Well of course I would want it to be that reason for sure. Like hes seeing possible changes, maybe reaching out to see if they are true? And the reason why I guess would be cause I DO want him to see I am making positive changes. Would it change anything wihin me if this were the case? Of course it would. Because even though I know I am moving forward for myself, it still feels good and give a little boost that he MAY be seeing the changes. Does that make sense?
It makes perfect sense. It is neither right nor wrong, it is just that people have their reasons for interpreting something certain ways. It serves us, to believe how we perceive something.
You are wanting to perceive it in a certain way, which for you appears positive. If you use that as motivation, it means you are having expectations.
So all I ask is that you recognize that you wish to see it in a positive light. In itself, that may help you remain positive in your interactions with H... and hopefully, that will snowball...
Just keep working on you and keep being the better and better woman that MIGHT attract your X back, one day.
