Nuked is a term we use at work meaning the big reaction not an indication of anger, but a big response. And it seems to have shaken him to his very core according to some friends-so no I do not think he will retaliate directly as he is too scared right now. He fears another bombing they said. I take no pleasure in that other than to hope he gets a clue and leaves me alone which is what he told them is his intention. But I am prepared for shrapnel should it come. I do own my anger when it is there but I have no anger to own in this case. I just want him to go away and be done as he cannot be the man for me although I do feel pity for him as he is obviously not well and hope he gets the help he needs someday. Any thoughts on whether I will be stuck with his things forever or if someone else will eventually come get them for him? They are out in the garage currently so not an issue right now. Someone else did send a message to her family so that is taken care of and done.
