Well, X has been hanging around the house and spending time with the kids... She made dinner for them ( which includes me by default) for the past few days. Still seems a bit aloof...not unfriendly, but not warm n fuzzy either. My sister invited the 4 of us to a cookout ... X said she'll consider it.
I'm trying not to pursue... So I guess I'll let her decide and I won't ask again.
Going dark is hard if she comes over nearly every day. Any suggestions. Finances have been tight since she moved out - for both of us.
The Boys n I would love to have her move home again ... I probably shouldn't ask her. Any ideas about how to approach this topic or should I leave the topic alone completely? She always said that before any chance of reconciling could happen, she would need to put the old R to rest ... Well, the D is final now, and she doesn't seem to be making a whole lot of moves toward reconciling, unless I'm just too involved and can't see the progress- kind of like watching grass grow.

(F.K.A. Broken422)

US 40's
M 17,T 19
2 BOYS 13,16
Divorced 4/2012
11/2011 W SAID SHE WANTS D

"When it is dark enough,you can see the stars"- Ralph Waldo Emerson