Fantastic mate! Looks like things are starting to go your way. Like everyone says though, keep your cool. Just back off and let her come all the way. I don't think that what you said, given the circumstances, was necessarily a bad thing.

With regards to work? I think that if your W is starting to change her opinion of you, she might not even tell these people at work if she knows what they would say. Do you talk about your sitch to people who think you should just leave your wife and move on?

Keep up the good work mate!!!

Freshman Class of 2012

M-49
W-42
1D-10
T 10 YEARS
M 9 YEARS
EA/MLC 07/2010
Separation 28/05/2012
PA confirmed 31/07/12
W Asked for D 31/07/12
D on and off the table since then