By the way, when we were together we always had financial problems however she would do things that I usually avoided. She use to get overdrafts regularly and she would take out payday advances. Those get very costly and just recently her cable got disconnected for not making a payment. I don’t think I should call her out on these things but I am sure she’s doing them again. I know I need to focus on ME but sh!t, it pisses me off because as she put it, she wants me to be the family’s “financial rock” but where’s her accountability in all of this???? Sorry, just venting!!!!