Venting...The double standard, again. And venting so I can get it off my chest and not blow up later.
A few weeks ago, my car broke down and H told me he was too busy to deal with it and dropped me off at the spare car. I ended up calling the auto repair place myself, which H told me to do because he was too busy to do it, and then a tow truck to get it to the repair shop. And then handled picking it up myself. For information purposes, my main vehicle is a Tahoe and the spare is a Jeep Wrangler. Try climbing in and out of a Jeep in a suit and heels.
H will be out of town at a BBQ competition this weekend. His friend took the RV which broke down about 45 minutes out of town. Guess who dropped what they were doing to go rescue friend? Friend is a grown man who is an elctrician. I'm trying to figure out why he can't call a tow truck on his own? Really??? Is he that helpless??
This is why I have problems stroking his ego and making him feel good. He doesn't give me many oppotunities. However, he does to everyone else so that they can stroke his ego. So, how do I compete with that?
M44 H57 D17 (special needs) M 18 yrs Bomb 7/2/12 Still living together