Update-

I took D2 to see Ex in hospital last night and D2 wanted nothing to do with her because she was hooked up to so many things. She looked hoorible. They cut her open and did not find a twisted bowel, but it was full of pus. They still have no idea what is going on. Ex was on heavy pain killers and it still didn't help much.

I decided to kill 2 birds with one stone and had D2 eat while we visited. She ate well. During the visit Ex got tons of phone calls from OM and I said nothing. Ex was very scared. Then she told me that Ex mil wanted her to moved back to our hometown 150 miles away and that MIL would buy her a house. Ex told me that she told MIL to basically shove off and let her live her life. (A very long time coming, for sure.) Ex told me that she would not put D2 through that. (I am still saving for a Lawyer just in case though). At least I know how much I can trust MIL now. It's like seeing the emperor and Darth Vader!

D2 cried all the way home after the visit and threw a raging fit until she knocked out for bedtime. Then she woke up an hour later and threw another fit until I put her in bed with me for the night.

The next thing you know I found I had a missed call from a number unrecognizable to me. I called the number back and got the voicemail of OM. I texted Ex to see if she was ok and notified her that OM called me. (I never gave him my number) Ex told me that OM showed up drunk at the hospital and snuck in a bottle of booze and was drinking in her bathroom, where she could not see it, because she was bedridden. She then told me she dumped him. smile She also appologized for giving him my number, but did it "in case of an emergency."

I told her I understood, but would prefer that in the future she give the hospital my info. I told her I don't need yet another headache of a guy stalking me as OM #2 already does and this other OM now has my number and know where I live!

I also told her about D2's fit and ex agreed to hold off on the visits.

Anyway, I will be taking care of D2 until Ex gets back on her feet again and will be enjoying my time with her. ILs can kiss my butt if they think they are going to take away my parenting time.

Well that is yesterday in a nutshell


M:35
W:33
M: 5 yrs.
Daughter: 2 yr .7/11/10
D Final: 8/7/12