I am happy with the path that life has led me, for the most part. I have learned lessons the hard way.
Now I have an INCREDIBLE man whom I love and loves me awesomely.
if I could just get rid of this freaking house....i've tried every option I (or anyone) can think of. I can't refinance because I'm so upsidedown. I can't rent it out because of the problems it has (unless it's to someone I know). I can't sell it because of the problems it has & what I owe. I can't take a short sale/foreclose because of how it would affect my credit and therefore my job.
Only solution I can see is that I have to pay off debt, save up, fix it and hold on to it till the market improves.
My other solution, honestly, is that I am going to write to every home improvement, talk show, magazine, etc and plead my case.
Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.
