My morning this far, Woke up as usual to help 2 of the 3 kids ready to leave for school with the W. Today I didn't automatically get her a cup of coffee as I had been doing as an act of kindness. It didn't seem to be giving me any positive changes so I stopped. She evidently woke up not feeling good (cold and headache) and a little later than usual so I knew she wasn't in a good mood. Unfortunate.ateky my D, who is 11 and becoming more sensitive due to her age, found out the hard way. The W yelled at D because she must not have rinsed all the shampoo out of her from last night's shower. D started to cry. W yelled at her to stop being ridiculous and quit pouting. I overheard this from the other room and went in and nonverbally told W to stop. I don't think I was out of place was I? D didn't see me politely encourage my W to stop, as yelling at people who are upset normally us counterproductive. Also, I did end up making lunch for my wife and getting her a "to go" coffee, since she was running so late for school / work. It was either that or she wasn't going to eat so she said. Right or wrong? Lastly, she did say aloud, "Why can't I get my act together in the morning." I wanted to offer my opinion (eg staying up too late in your phone), but I did not say a word. Mini triumph for me. Time to get our 3 child up and ready for school.
