I don't know why everyone seems flippant about warning the OW. Ever since the theater shootings it's a big issue.
IMHO I still think you should tell the OW or her family and if they believe/or not believe you that's up to them/her. But maybe just maybe you can save a life. Psychos have a tendency to kill not the intended victim but their whole families including innocent children.
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