When STBXH came home from work today he was acting antsy. I was paying bills, the last task I had on my planned stuff for today. I had a nice dinner in the oven. He sat down and was watchig TV. I told him he could eat without me, as I was mid-task. He waited for me to finish. Then we ate together.

Then I brought up how I thought we were going to work out the money. And he said that he agreed, but expressed his concern that we won't have enough cash saved up to pay first and last months deposits on rentals, and the hassles of moving. I see that is a valid point, and offered a plan to set aside some money for that.

So we had a nice talk and no nasty words were exchanged. SHocking how nicely things go with actual communication.

Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32
D final 9/12
Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!