I'd still use the word "neglected" b/c if she was intimidated BECAUSE she's afraid you'll ignore her if she enters...what does that tell you?
You keep saying her complaints are from the past and that you have, in effect fixed all your flaws but then you say "no I have stuff to work on."
So what is it? Why'd you say you were not fun to be with for her? What makes you believe she thinks that? Be specific about things you regret. The more concrete you are, the more concrete your changes will be.
What have you DONE to change the neglectful image she has of you?
And what else? Did she say you have a temper, are controlling, boring, mean, or whatever else?
Also, can you stop focussing on what you cannot do, and instead look at what you CAN do to change the image you send her.
To contrast the negatives she has/had, with positives.
Any ideas?
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