I also think you are dong a great job. You have great PMA, you seem to be getting just the right amount of detachment and things are starting to happen. As you said, now is not the time to get all excited but keep doing what you're doing because it works. BTW, I might try slapping myself in the face but like Mrs D says, I'll be red-faced and the neighbours are going to think I'm possessed.
(Carnac, can I just highjack your thread for a bit? Thx)
Originally Posted By: Mrs D
As the WAW at one point, I dont see how she couldnt be. Because I have lived that side as well - I can tell you my thoughts were still of my H every night. Even though I was having an EA. Wow, that sounds really bad. I wish my H had backed off and not come off as needy as he had for awhile. And I think that helps me some with not being as pouncy as I want to be. It is a big turnoff. But at the same time, I know with his constant being there - I didnt lose complete focus on him and the EA didnt turn into anything but.
Mrs D, I have to admit that I could use your insight as a WAW. I'm not doing too good at the moment with my W and I'm just not sure how to take her. We have had the "family day" last week and it was great but now it seems as if she was just cake eating. Her moods change like the wind and her attitude towards our D8 is at times exasperating.
M-49 W-42 1D-10 T 10 YEARS M 9 YEARS EA/MLC 07/2010 Separation 28/05/2012 PA confirmed 31/07/12 W Asked for D 31/07/12 D on and off the table since then