ok - i accept your reasoning.

but...

is there another way i can approach this with h? can i approach it from the angle of us deciding together what is to be done here?

where i do not bring up boundaries, but focus on how we plan to parent together in the future? or is that moot?

me 46 H 38
M10yrs T 11
S10
BD ow 8/11
h filed 9/25/12


"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"