can Turtles still stand?

[zig]

thank you KD - I am really proud of the progress I have made today and once again - thank you for propelling me there. I possibly may have not got there so fast without your wonderful nudge. loooove the way you operate

Making your boundaries clear... is to LIVE YOUR BOUNDARIES.


so you say that words are ineffective - as opposed to actions.

i get you on that - are you saying that I should NOT have this conversation with h?

if not, how do i show h my actions in this area, without giving him the respectful opportunity to understand fully where I stand on this now?

I cannot discuss with him that this is a decision he and I should be making , not him and ow?

I cannot discuss with him that I do not want us to set a precedent where he decides whatever and i decide whatever?

I'm not really clear on what you are saying. from past experience of getting certain things from your posts, i have learned that you lay out a sentence and it helps me to get to a new place.

But i'm a bit flummoxed here - how does one, when it's a relatively short time (8days) live ones' newly established boundaries, without saying anything? couldn't you spell it out for me this time, pretty please

i look forward to your reply

zig